Hi! I'm Lindsay Ferrier. You might remember me from a blog called Suburban Turmoil. Well, a lot has changed since I started that blog in 2005. My kids grew up, I got a divorce, and I finally left the suburbs for the heart of Nashville, where I feel like I truly belong. I have no idea what the future will hold and you know what? I'm okay with that. Thrilled, actually. It was time for something totally different.
April 27, 2009
>One of my very favorite memories of college is the summer I spent in appearing in my local theater’s production of Noises Off.
I was in a lot of plays growing up, but Noises Off was definitely the most complicated- and the most fun. It was a play within a play and had a two-story set that contained lots of doors and rotated 180 degrees, so that the audience could see both what was going on backstage and what was happening “onstage.”
The comedic timing was dependent on the players coming in and out of those doors on the set at just the right times, with just the right props and saying just the right things. We rehearsed and rehearsed and rehearsed and then we rehearsed some more. The small cast included a few University of Georgia students like me and a few seasoned actors who were permanent residents of Athens and very involved in local theater. With all that rehearsing, we got to know each other quite well in a short period of time.
At first, I was a little afraid of the adults in the play. I was worried they’d look down their noses at my youth and high school theater credentials. Well, they couldn’t have been nicer. The hilarious tone of the play carried over into our rehearsals and parties. I remember endless practical jokes and laughing and carrying on and I remember that within a week or two, it seemed like we were all old friends, and had been for years.
Although it was an ensemble production, top billing went to a woman named Marie Bruce, who was a fixture in Athens theater and played the batty old housekeeper in the show (Carol Burnett played the role in the movie). She was, as you’d expect, tremendously outgoing, always up for a laugh, and incredibly helpful to me. She always had good advice on how to play a scene, and she even let me borrow her lingerie for the show, since I was required to run around in my underwear during most of it and I didn’t own anything appropriate myself. Thanks in part to Marie’s leadership, there was no upstaging or scene-stealing among the cast which, as those of you who’ve done theater know, is saying a lot. We all worked together to make the play great.
And our hard work ended up paying off; Noises Off was a tremendous hit and got a wonderful review in the local newspaper. The local theater critic, I remember, actually laughed until she cried, even requesting a box of Kleenex during intermission. Thanks to her review, we played to packed houses every night at the newly-renovated historic Morton Theater downtown. We even made the front page of the local newspaper’s weekend section. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience.

I saw the cast members on and off over the next three years, and acted in a few more plays with some of them. Then I graduated from the University of Georgia, moved to South Carolina, and never heard from them again.
Until Saturday night.
I was checking my e-mail when I saw a headline on the Yahoo! homepage: 3 dead, 2 hurt in Georgia shooting; professor sought. Ordinarily, I wouldn’t even have clicked on it, but the ‘professor’ in the headline caught my eye. I clicked on the story. The dateline was in Athens, where I’d gone to college. I read on.
The shooting had happened in front of Athens Community Theater. My heart began thudding.
According to the story, on Saturday morning the professor had driven with his 8 and 10-year-old children to the theater, where a reunion of sorts was taking place. He left the kids in the car, went inside, targeted three people, and shot them multiple times. Among the dead was his wife.
Her name was Marie Bruce.
I sat, frozen, as all the memories came flooding back. Marie’s crazy cockney accent in the play. Marie’s wild backstage stories of theater intrigue. Marie’s help with makeup and costumes backstage. Marie’s laugh.
Marie had been shot and killed by her husband.
I began looking up other stories on the shootings. Another cast member from our play had been at the reunion as well, and had spoken about the shootings on CNN. It was surreal, having so many old memories stirred up by such a horrific event.
By Sunday morning, stories had emerged that went into greater detail about her personal life. Marie had been busy in the years since I had known her. She had gone to law school, become a prominent defense attorney in town, started directing plays in addition to acting in them, and had two children. She was 47 years old, president of the local theater board, and by all accounts, in her prime.

At first, I couldn’t decide whether or not to tell this story on my blog. But in the end, I wanted to write about Marie because I want her to be more than a headline for those of you who read this post. She was a mother of two. She was an incredibly talented actress. She was kind, even to naive 19-year-old girls. She was making a difference, as a mother, as an attorney, and as a member of her community. She didn’t deserve to go out this way.
In 2006, Marie Bruce not only directed “Noises Off” in Highlands, North Carolina, but also took the opportunity to recast two of the actors from our original play in Athens. In a newspaper article about the play, she’s quoted as saying, “I was lucky to be in Noises Off 12 years ago and it was one of the best theatrical experiences I have ever had.”
Me too, Marie.
Rest in peace.
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>I'm so sorry for your loss. There's no understanding this, but the legacy they leave is one of joy & love. They touched so many lives…my dearest friend Amanda also knew them well from Town & Gown, as well as UGA.
>I’m very sorry for your loss, Lindsey. You did a beautiful job of remembering her.
>That is so sad! I also clicked on the story because of the word “professor” – it makes you wonder what goes through someone’s mind to make them do something so horrible. It was nice of you to remember her in this way.
>I’m so sorry for your loss. That was a wonderful remembrance of her and I’m sure there are many other people who’s lives she touched. What a tragedy.
>You are in my prayers, Lindsey. Those poor children. That’s the truly heartbreaking part.I kind of had a similar experience. When I was just out of journalism school I took my first job in Georgia. I ended up working the crime beat and knew a lot of the cops. One of the cops who was particularly nice to me was embroiled in a custody battle that no one really knew much about. He hid his depression and anger well. We were all shocked when we heard that he murdered his son and then himself two months after I moved to Texas for a different job.I don’t know what happens to make people do these things. Its something that I can’t wrap my mind around. But its so heartbreaking. I’m so sad for you Lindsey. May God be with those children and her family.
>Wow. Just, wow.I’ve had tons of experiences with death from community theater friends who were just as awesome and kind to me as an awkward adolescent as Marie was to you, but not nearly as tragically.I’m so sorry for that. How horrible.
>I’m so sorry Lindsay
>Oh! That’s terrible, Lindsay. I’m so sorry.
>I’m so sorry. This is a horrible tragedy. There is nothing like the group of people whom you share a theatrical experience with. And your Noises Off sounds like it was a very special show.
>Oh my goodness. I’m so sorry.
>So sad and so horrifying. I’m sorry about your friend.
>So sorry. So sad, so scary. Praying for you and her family.
>I can’t say just the right things, I’m sure. So I’ll just say I’m so sorry, and hope for healing for those children.
>I’m so sorry about your friend!
>Wow, I’m so sorry. Theater relationships are always close ones
>That is horrifying. The poor family. I’m so sorry you were touched by this violence.
>Oh, I am so sorry.
>I read about this. How very horrible.
>no words…just ((((hugs))))
>I’m sorry to hear about your loss. Bless her family.
>Oh how awful. I am so sorry to hear this. I grew up in the theatre, too, and I know the connection and closeness that develops on that stage, behind the scenes, and among the cast- it’s unlike any other.Steph
>That was a nice tribute to your friend. It is so terrible when you know the person behind the headlines. Its quite surreal. That is what happened to my husband a few weeks ago when the Good Friday tornadoes hit Murfreesboro. His childhood friend nearly died and he lost his wife and newborn baby that day. It was horrible to hear about these things if you didn’t know the person but to have met him and his wife and that my husband was long time friends with him has made it so, so tragic. It has been so strange to read about the family on CNN, etc. My condolences to you.
>I wanted to add my condolences as well. I, too, am glad you posted this, because when I heard the story on the news, I had the typical “oh, that’s so horrible” response. But “knowing” (via blog!) someone who knew the victim makes it all the more personal. I’ll be praying for her family, and you as well. Here’s a hug to help.
>Thank you for sharing your memories of her. You’re right, if you hadn’t told her story she’d be another name to me, and she obviously sounds like someone everyone should know. Thanks for letting us get to know her.
>Lindsay, I’m sorry. Such a tragedy, and quite frightening to actually know one of the victims so well.
>How sad.I’m sorry for you, for her family, for her community.
>How horrible – so sorry. 🙁
>I love Noises Off! And it sounds like she was perfect to play the housekeeper.People like Marie who will nurture enthusiastic young people are special and in short supply.I am sorry for the loss.
>This is such a sad story. You’ve written a beautiful tribute. I feel so sad for everyone involved, esp. the children.
>I am so glad that you decided to publish this. It is a tribute to the kind of person she was. It puts a face to the faceless tragedies that march through the headlines each day.My sympathies to her children, her family and friends far and wide.
>I’m sorry for your loss, it’s really hard to believe that someone, especially a “loved one” could do that.
>I’m so sorry Lindsay, I’ll keep you and her family in my thoughts.
>I’m so sorry for your loss.This was a beautiful post.
>I’m so sorry that such a special life was cut so short and I pray for the best for her children and family. How wonderful that such brief life was at least full.
>I’m so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for helping us know the real Marie and not just the headline.
>I am so sorry Lindsay. When I started reading this post I was going to comment on how great “Noises Off” is. I read you next post as well. They go well together.
>So sad!! That is terrible!
>Oh my gosh Lindsay! I am so sorry. I read about this story earlier this week. So so sad. She would love that you remembered her in this way.