I returned last Sunday night from BlogHer, the largest women’s blogging conference in the world and yes, I’m just now getting a chance to write about it, but by now, you know the drill:  Busy. Stuff going on. Changes. Can’t wait to write about everything. I’ve gone to BlogHer every year since 2007, and both […]

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August 5, 2013

A Frighteningly Frank Review of BlogHer ’13

Today is my husband’s birthday. I don’t write a whole lot here about Dennis, for several reasons. First, he’s a public figure, at least here in Nashville, and I don’t want to embarrass him (too much). Second, he’s an adult and doesn’t need his wife telling the whole world about his private life. Third, I’ve […]

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July 21, 2013

This One Goes Out to the One I Love

This morning, my six year old son made a book for me. I’d like to share it with you all. This is a person peeing. Not that you couldn’t tell. I mean, look at the blue. And the sound effect. Obvious. Meanwhile on page two, this person is loudly pooting. He merely says “p,” as […]

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July 12, 2013

So Proud.

You can tell from a quick glance at my bio that I’m a step mom — but I almost never write about it. I’ve had several big reasons to steer clear of the topic– One, I’m not my stepdaughters’ mom, and if I were, I don’t think I’d be too happy if they had a […]

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July 8, 2013

10 Brutal Truths About Being a Step Mom

Step mom advice

When my daughter was small, like many other girls her age, she was crazy about princesses. She read princess storybooks, collected princess dolls, listened to princess music, watched princess movies, and of course…   …she wore princess dresses. Everywhere she went. I didn’t encourage Punky’s princess fixation, but I didn’t discourage it, either. She was […]

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July 1, 2013

Goodbye, Little Princess

I’ve spent the last week on vacation and I’ll get to that later this week- but first, here’s what I wrote while on the road– My last post, on feeling like a ‘bad Christian,’ was really difficult for me to write. It took four days of thinking before I thought it reflected what was on […]

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June 17, 2013

A Little More on Feeling Like a ‘Bad Christian’

A couple of years ago, I was asked by a Christian organization to visit a third world country and write about the experience on my blog. Although I was flattered to get the offer, in the end I turned it down because it seemed like the kind of thing I needed to wait on until […]

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June 6, 2013

Bad Christian

Longtime readers of this blog know that when my stepdaughters were younger, we lived, ate, slept and breathed soccer. Both girls played recreational soccer, junior high and high school soccer, 3 v. 3 soccer, and winter indoor soccer, and Dennis coached nearly all of their teams. We started Punky in soccer when she turned three, […]

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May 30, 2013

When to Butt In

Dennis called me yesterday just after I got home from school with the kids. “Are you watching TV?” he asked. “No, what’s happened?” “A massive tornado just hit Oklahoma City. It’s horrible. Absolutely horrible.” I turned on the television and watched in shocked silence as a helicopter camera panned across what looked like a war […]

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May 21, 2013

Shock and Horror