As news of the Boston Marathon explosions sunk in yesterday, I watched my Twitter and Facebook feeds explode with a range of emotions. Anger. Grief. Shock. Fear. Disbelief. Worry. Dejection. Coming so close on the heels of the Newtown shootings, what happened yesterday seems even more difficult to bear. And yet for precisely this reason, […]

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April 16, 2013

Trying to Make Sense of a Tragedy

Dear Punky, I have to admit, I’ve put off writing this letter to you– because every time I thought about it, a lump would form in the back of my throat. This is the most difficult birthday letter I’ve ever had to write to you. This is the year you began to grow up. When […]

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April 15, 2013

The Halfway Point

Like many kids his age, my son is completely obsessed with Angry Birds. And Hay Day. And Temple Run. And any other gameĀ  he can get his sticky little jam fingers on. He plays the games on my husband’s iPhone, which my husband lets him borrow for a few minutes each day after he gets […]

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April 10, 2013

Why Does Your Kid Need His Own iPad?

Well. Bruiser’s kindergarten photo came home in his backpack yesterday. (His SPRING school photo. Because apparently, they grow SO MUCH in six months that without TWO sets of school photos per year, we wouldn’t be able to recognize them.) I think Dennis summed it up best when he looked at it and said… “Who farted?” […]

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April 9, 2013

Awkward School Photos

Dennis and I were asked recently to judge a dog contest at Cheekwood Gardens here in Nashville. We said yes immediately– Our kids are dog-crazy, we love Cheekwood, and the idea of spending quality time outside together on a beautiful spring day seemed like a perfect Sunday afternoon. The day of the contest dawned damp […]

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April 8, 2013

The Dog Contest

Dear Bruiser,   Last year, you didn’t just “turn” five.   You knocked five out of the park. You lived out your fifth year with gusto and a BIG BOOMING VOICE and a motor that just wouldn’t quit. You got up without fail every morning between five and six am (which I didn’t really mind […]

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April 2, 2013

Now You Are Six

Catalogued somewhere in the darkest corners of my mind are a few too many memories from my teenage years that now, as a parent, I’d rather forget. They’re as hazy today as they were then, distorted by alcohol and late nights. But they all follow the same pattern, the same dance. At frat parties or […]

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March 26, 2013

Lessons From Steubenville

I know, I know- I haven’t posted for a few days now, but that’s only because last week was Bruiser’s 6th birthday, and he reacted with the same crazed zeal of a Bridezilla preparing for her wedding. And so last week was filled with special birthday activities. Dinner INSIDE McDonalds! Pottery painting at Brushfire! An […]

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March 21, 2013

Lean Out

Last Tuesday night was my eight-year-old’s annual school music performance. The first year she performed as a kindergartner, I videotaped the whole thing and took about a hundred photos, because OH MY GAW MY BABY WAS ON A STAGE. Since that time, though, I have to confess that the novelty has worn off, and subsequent […]

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March 11, 2013

Upstaged

Now that I have a little more down time than I did last year, my husband and I are finally APPRECIATING it. And for us, that’s huge. We’ve been spending the last few months building up our marriage, spending time as a family, figuring out our spiritual needs, getting more sleep, eating better, and exercising […]

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March 9, 2013

Three Good Things